While watching an episode of cheaters yesterday and becoming disgusted not only at the cheater but the fools who were willing to take them back. I want to know why do people cheat. The way I see it is, no one is holding a gun up to your head to stay in a relationship. If you want someone else why not tell the person you're with so they can move on with their life. I have zero respect for any man or woman who cheats. You can easily break up and be free to do as you please. Why take someone through that? I've come to the conclusion that most men cheat just because they think it's "cool" They are called playas, pimps,ladies men, and blah blah. When women cheat they are called sluts and whores. There is a double standard. So many women are naive (dumb) to take back cheating men. How many of you men would honestly take back a cheating woman? I have come up with a list of reasons why I think people cheat
3. Wanting to feel attractive. Knowing that people out there still want you.
4. The thrill
I think that infidelity is the new norm. Monogamy is dead. 15% of wives and 25% of husbands have cheated on their spouse according to American Assoc for Marriage. I doubt those numbers are close to being correct. Many studies have shown men and women cheat for different reasons. I doubt it. Men cheat for more sex and women cheat for emotions. I think its Bull. Women can't have sex just to have sex? Does it have to have emotions? I highly doubt that. Then again many of the researchers happens to be men so of course they would like to think that. I've watched plenty of videos on infidelity,and read research studies. Almost all of the men who were caught cheating tried to play the victim,like they wanted sympathy. If you have a family at home why cheat? If there's someone out there you want to be with, why not end things with your spouse? What's so hard about being man or woman enough to break up or divorce someone. I'd rather have a guy tell me he wants someone else so I can move on rather than cheat. Now on to the women. A lot of the times when a woman catches her man cheating who is the person she tries to fight? The other woman! Why? She isn't the one deceiving you, it's your man. That shows that women tend to blame the other woman rather than the man who is cheating on them. It is very sickening. This world is full of weak people. Too afraid to live. To afraid to divorce because of what people may say and so on.
Why do people cheat?
Why do people stay with cheaters?
Any comments or experience please share.
BTW sexting is cheating ppl.